Is it normal you think to not want to ';joke around'; right away with people you first meet?

why so?



and how normal?



how people normally interact before relaxing into that type of thing, in your opinon?



what kinds of things do YOU check on about other person and why?



please explain



btw, which area of the world are you?



thanks for your answers!Is it normal you think to not want to ';joke around'; right away with people you first meet?
yeaaahh :)