How can you become more socialable ?

Growing up i was a shy type of person and its stayed with me for a long time... I guess my communication skills are not the greatest since i have gotten so used to doing things on my own..... Lately im feeling kind of bad because i don't have any friends but 1 person that lives out of state. The only other people i socialize with are a few family members. I feel like my life is missing alot.. I allways thought i would get married and have kids and have a great life but im allready 30 and time goes by so fast.... Im not sure how or if i will be able to fix all this... Im a good person and sometimes i can have a good time and interact with people well.. But normally i dont know what to do to be get myself around people and alot of the time i can break the ice to get to know people so i feel comfortable with them and open up... What can i do to be more socialable and just be around more people ?How can you become more socialable ?
try approaching a saetmate in class..

talk to him/her on whatever she/he wants to talk about. never center the chat ON YOU. Dont sound too bragging nor too shy.



continue making riends with first...everyone around your chair, ofcourse those who you know ah.



Organize parties and chats in your house, invite them in and eat out lunch or snack at your room.



always project a smile, thats a sign that you are approachable.



always be the one to start a conversation,



always be prompt on meetings with friends



no man is an island so you can be as sociable as anyone around you, it is your choice,



come out of your shell and propagate that smile and love.haha





anyways,





ORGANIZE parties at your house, invite your neighbors, celebrate your birthday, occasions such as valentines and others at your house.



throw a party. that it and dont forget to be nice ah..





Godbless...its not yet late by the way..How can you become more socialable ?
There's nothing wrong with strengthening the bonds between you and your family members, your cousins, aunts, uncles, and so on as a springboard to make new friends (just steal all their friends).
Find your favorite hobby and go for it. Check out a local church's singles group and rock on. Volunteer at a shelter or orphanage. Join a bowling league. Take riding lessons. Take a speech class, it will help with your shyness. Visit the old lady who lives next door. Bring her flowers one day, I'm sure she can introduce you to her granddaughter. Visit Eharmony.com