I'm not so good with interacting with people. Help please?

Ok so finally for once in my life I have never been happier at school. I am 13 years old and used to hang out with people that I didn't share the same interests with. But now I hang with a group that share same interests as me. (surfing, skating, etc.) I am friends with most of them but how can I become better friends with them. What could I do with them on the weekends and how would I ask them. BTW 2 of my ex- girlfriends are in that group so how can I make it less awkward for both of us?I'm not so good with interacting with people. Help please?
You're 13 and you already have two ex girlfriends? Anyway, this is a bit awkward. You have to treat them nicely. You never know they might talk behind your back.



But to answer your question, just be cool. Treat everyone nicely and everyone will get along. Don't be needy. Don't be clingy. I'm not so good with interacting with people. Help please?
talk to her!
talk to her and ask her if it makes her uncomfortable to have you hanging around.
To answer your ex-girlfriends question, just act casually around them. Just like what you would do with your regular friends. If you let off the vibe of being awkward, they will catch on and feel the same way. Once you make an effort to be casual, it will soon get much easier.
Your'e doing better than I did
go to a skate park and just tell them how you found a awesome skate place and that you all should go this weekend and tear it up. As for surfing tell them you guys should have a mini beach bash and go surfing ect. Just look into places that you all are intrested in with skating ect. and just act casual as for having 2 ex's i dnk how that works especially sence your only 13. Why in the world at 13 are you dating wait till your more around 15.
do community service together, go to the movies. just be real casual about it!
cool dude! ur good in interacting. thts why u r doing so with me. u just need to intensify.
well just treat your ex's like one of ur friends. (unless theyy hold a gruge or something then you should stay away from them.) and you just need to hang out with those people more you cant do anything to make them like you better, the only thing you can do is be yourself. and for the weekends you could go skateing or surfing if thats what you guys or in to. or you can even go to eachothers houses or the mall and hang out.

good luck


i live life for my awkward moments sort of.

i mean, byt elling myself that i get thru them anyhow, just dont constantly bet hinking abotu them as ur ex girlfriewnd...think about them as POEPLE, by their names......dw abotu it timewill make it less awkward

for me texting is always the best way to invite ppl to chiill....it seems the msot casual to text someone and say ';heyy im nto doin anythign 2moro wanna come skating with me';

or

';heyy wat r u doin tomrow wanna come chill at my place for a lil..we can watch movies and ****';



u can say tha online or in person also, the thing is if you can try to make it seem casual and not so planned out....

but even if it deos seem planned out it shoulndt atter os much, the importnatt thing is to invite them to hang out wiht you enough so theyll start inviting u mroe often also

what to do with them, u can go skating.surfing with them..watch moives...videgames.......during the shcool year if ur the type that does HW haha u can also do hw a little and then jc....go palces to eat with them random restaurants or slurpee or ice cream places......theres a lot to do if u cant think of anything they will
well.. u can do the things you all enjoy.

like the skating and surfing u said.

and u can just invite them over and hang out and chill.



and the girlfriend thing.

if u just either talk to them about it or if thats to awkard then just talk to them and make them feel like a friend they'll not only feel more comfortable around you but u should feel more comfortable around them.



and your school sounds like it has a lot of cliques.

so i would also try to expand your friend a little more if your only really friends with the people in that group.





i hope everything works out. : )
Well I don't know much about guys for one, but with the girls, just find what their into and talk about it and laugh and stuff. Sort of treat them like one of your friends and it will be a lot less awkward. Girls laugh when guys do funny stuff too, so that can help break the ice with them, then just be cool like you would around any other girl you were just friends with.
You can become better friends by hanging out more often, and having face to face contact. Always be honest with the person and try to develop trust. And with the ex-girlfriend, I would say to try to be friends with them, but that's just my opinion.
just dont say anything bad about them behind there back because it will prolly get back to them since your all in the same group of friends or wutever... and if you want to interact better with people just dont get nervous and dont try to be cool. be yourself and the people that like you for who you really are will become your true friends.
Stay kind to the exes, make sure there's no unresolved feelings there, as for the guys...? Invite them to do such things that you guys like together, as in the skating and surfing, etc... do you have any close friends? Ask them , or remember how it was you became better friends with them.
You know, two years ago I was your age and I felt just the same. I couldn't believe it! I was actually happy at school! How can you become better friends with them? You can try being as honest about yourself for one.Show them who you really are, your true personality, your uniqueness. Soon, they'll like you even better. And btw don't EVER treat them with contempt. That's the worst thing you can ever express to them. remember that they are equals.

P.S.- I could infer you're a fan of extreme sports. Check out ';parkour';.....you just might like it
If both your ex's are getting along with each other then what is bothering you. Obviously they both are over you that is why the blend in the same group. If you want to spend weekends with your friends then why not propose or organize are surfing or skating competition or sort of fund raising. That way you are able to spend weekend with them, exercise them field that interest you and your group will be able to help others thru fund raising. Best of all this is a very good way of interacting with people.