How do i get my friend to relax about his problems?

he is always worring about his problem.. granted he has a secret that can alter his life in a negative way....he is letting this stop him from socially interacting... he interact with people at work but he has too ...how do i get him to stop thinking about his problems and look towards solutionsHow do i get my friend to relax about his problems?
The key word here is secret.. And the fact it is HIS secret,,says,,that unless HE desires to give out this secret,,it will remain HIS secret..HE is the only one who can alter his life to which ever he wishes..You have not the right to ask or tell him how to resolve his issues..Some of the most devastating problems in the world have been kept so by peoples all of their lives..Its not the easiest thing to live with,,but its not only possible,,but one can live a normal life in SPITE of ones problems..We are all actors on the stage of life..I don't recommend it,,but even ';hate'; can be motivational factor!! Tell your friend to quit thinking about his problems so much ,,and concentrate on living his life.. And do you know why?? He has to,,to live his life...GOOD LUCK!! SOLOMONHow do i get my friend to relax about his problems?
bring him somewhere social, bar, dance hall... and just have him there after a while he will calm down from just being around people. Hope it gets solved out.
Try Cheering Him Up A Bit. Talk To Him And Wait Until He's Ready To Interact. Help Him See What Is Good about Him And Life.
It sounds to me this problem is altering his life in a negative way anyway. It is very hard to live with a conscious that knows you have done the wrong thing. It might be good to talk about the consequences of facing this problem and how this is going to affect the rest of his life if he doesn't.